It started with a voicemail at 2 a.m. from Gideon: “Hey, can you take Tyson and Midge for a few days? Emergency thing.”

I said yes. Of course I said yes. These weren’t just his dogs—they were family. Tyson snorted like a pig when he got excited, and Midge slept curled up like a croissant. I figured he’d be back by Monday.

Monday passed. Then Friday. Then two weeks.

I called. Texted. Emailed. Nothing. His apartment was empty when I drove by—mail stacked up, power shut off.

Month three, I found out through a mutual friend he’d skipped town. Something about a “clean break.” No word to Mom, no goodbye to me. Just vanished. Left his dogs like old furniture.

I didn’t know whether to scream or sob. Instead, I bought a second dog bed. Rearranged my life. Every morning, two noses under the blanket. Every night, Midge twitching in her sleep.

Last week, I received a text from an unknown number. It was Gideon. Just a simple sentence: “I need to talk.”

I stared at the screen for what felt like an eternity. There was no anger, no immediate surge of emotion. Just this heavy weight in my chest, like everything that had been building up for months was now pouring out.

I let it sit for a while before responding. “Where are you?” I wrote.

He didn’t reply for another hour. When he did, it was a location—a park, near the river.

I stood in front of the mirror, fixing my hair even though I knew it didn’t matter. I didn’t know what I was expecting. A confrontation? An apology? Some grand explanation for why he had disappeared without a trace? Part of me wanted to run, to just let it be, but there was still a piece of me that needed closure.

When I arrived at the park, I didn’t see him immediately. The place was mostly empty, save for a couple of joggers and an elderly woman walking her dog. I walked toward the bench he had mentioned. And there he was, sitting with his head down, his face shadowed under the brim of his hat.

I didn’t speak immediately. I just stood there, watching him, waiting for him to look up. It felt surreal, like some scene from a movie. The kind where you know there’s going to be a twist, but you can’t quite figure out what it is.

He finally lifted his head and saw me. There was no apology in his eyes. No regret. Just the same tired expression he’d worn the last time I saw him, before he walked away without a word.

“I didn’t think you’d come,” he said quietly.

“I almost didn’t.”

He exhaled deeply, rubbing his hands together nervously. “I’m sorry about everything. About the dogs, about leaving without a word… it wasn’t right.”

“I still don’t understand why you did it. You just disappeared.”

He hesitated before speaking. “I was… I was in a bad place. I felt like I couldn’t talk to anyone. I thought if I left, everything would… reset. I was running away from everything, including you.”

“From me?” I couldn’t help but laugh, though there was no humor in it. “You ran away from me, from Mom, from the dogs? What did they do to deserve this?”

“I know,” he muttered, looking down. “I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have done it. But it wasn’t about you, it was about me.”

“Great. So, where have you been all this time? What have you been doing?”

His eyes flickered nervously. “I’ve been… working through things. I went to a retreat. I needed to find myself.”

“A retreat?” I scoffed. “You disappeared for months, and now you’re telling me you went to a retreat?”

He nodded, his eyes pleading for some understanding. “I know it doesn’t make sense. But that’s what I thought I needed.”

I shook my head. “What about the dogs, Gideon? What about Tyson and Midge?”

He looked pained. “I… I didn’t know what to do. I knew I couldn’t take them with me, and I didn’t want them to be a burden to you. I thought I’d be gone a week, but then it just… kept going.”

“And you just left them with me like that?”

“I didn’t know who else to turn to.”

I felt a lump form in my throat. It wasn’t anger anymore—it was a strange, aching sadness. He had come to me when it was convenient for him, as always. I had been the safety net, the backup, the one person who could be counted on when everything else fell apart. But this time… this time, I wasn’t sure if I could forgive him. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to.

“You know, you didn’t just leave me with the dogs, Gideon,” I said, my voice shaking. “You left me with all the questions. All the hurt. All the confusion. And for what? So you could go to some retreat and figure out your life while I cleaned up your mess?”

“I’m sorry. I didn’t think it through. I was selfish.”

“You were.” I paused, trying to calm the rising anger. “You left me to deal with everything on my own. You left me with a life that I didn’t ask for, and you never bothered to check in, to even say ‘thank you.’”

“I know. I was wrong.”

I wanted to scream, but I didn’t. Instead, I sat down next to him on the bench, my mind racing. “What now, Gideon? What happens next?”

He looked at me, his expression vulnerable, but still distant. “I don’t know. I want to make things right. I want to take the dogs back. I’ll do whatever I can to fix this.”

“You can start by never disappearing again. By being here. By showing up.”

He nodded, his eyes filled with a strange mixture of guilt and hope. “I will. I promise.”

It wasn’t enough. It wasn’t enough to just promise. He had taken too much from me—too much trust, too much patience, too much heart. But I realized, in that moment, that maybe the best thing I could do was to let go of the anger. Maybe that was the only way I could start healing.

As we sat there in silence, the dogs at home sleeping peacefully, I thought about all the times I had taken care of them, all the times I had rearranged my life for them, and I realized something. I had never expected a thank you. I had never expected anything in return. I had done it because I loved them. And maybe, just maybe, that was the point. Sometimes, love isn’t about getting anything back. It’s about showing up, no matter what.

When I got home, I found Tyson and Midge curled up together on the couch. I looked at them for a long time, trying to make sense of everything. They didn’t care that their owner had disappeared for months. They didn’t care that I had been left holding the pieces of a broken promise. All they cared about was the fact that I was there. That was enough.

Maybe, in the end, that’s all we can really ask for. To be there for the ones we love, no matter what. To show up when it matters most.

And as I sat down on the couch next to them, Tyson’s snort breaking the silence, I realized something else. Sometimes, it’s not about forgiving others for their mistakes—it’s about forgiving yourself for carrying the weight of those mistakes for too long.

So, I forgave him. Not for him, but for me.

And with that, I knew I could finally move on.

If you’ve ever been let down by someone you love, take it from me—it’s not about what they did. It’s about how you choose to carry on after. How you choose to love, even when it’s hard.

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