My dad passed away last year and left me his cabin in the woods. My mom is asking me to give my stepbrother the cabin. Not loan โ give. I told her flat out, “No.” Now, she won’t speak to me.
It’s been three weeks. No calls, no texts. Not even a like on my Facebook post about the anniversary of Dad’s passing. That one hurt.
I didnโt expect much from my stepbrother, Travis. We never got along growing up. He was the kind of kid who borrowed your stuff and never gave it back. Once, he sold my Nintendo on Craigslist because he โneeded money for guitar lessons.โ He never bought a guitar. Or took lessons.
But my momโshe used to be the glue that held us together. Always playing peacemaker. Always saying things like, โFamily is all weโve got.โ I guess that glue dries up when you say “no” to giving away the only thing your dad left you.
The cabin wasnโt just a cabin.
It was the place where Dad taught me to fish. Where we used to play cards by the fire on rainy nights and talk about everything from the stars to why people drift apart. It had his scent. His old flannel blankets. His coffee mug with the chip in the rim. Giving it away felt like giving him away.
I tried to explain that to Mom. She said I was being selfish. That Travis was โin a tough spotโ and โcould really use a fresh start.โ
โHeโs 32,โ I said. โHeโs had a thousand fresh starts.โ
Mom just sighed and hung up.
I couldnโt stop thinking about it. What made her think this was okay? Was I the only one who remembered how Dad used to say, โThat cabin will be yours one day, kiddoโ?
A week later, I drove up to the cabin. I hadnโt been there since the funeral. It was early spring. Snow still clung to the corners of the yard, but the air had that soft smell of thawing earth and pine needles.
Inside, everything was just as I remembered. The fishing rods in the corner. The old recliner with the duct tape on the arm. Dadโs boots by the door. I sat on the porch and tried to breathe it all in. This place felt more like home than the apartment I lived in back in the city.
That night, I built a fire and made coffee in his chipped mug. I thought about all the times we sat in silence, just listening to the woods. And I thought about Travis.
He hadnโt even shown up for the funeral. Texted Mom a โsorryโ and sent flowers. Then posted a photo of himself at a concert that same night. And now he wanted the cabin?
No.
I stayed up late, going through a box of Dadโs things. In the bottom, under a stack of old Polaroids, I found a letter with my name on it. Written in his messy block letters. The envelope was sealed.
My heart jumped.
I opened it slowly.
โKiddo, if you’re reading this, then I’m probably gone. Don’t be sad too long, alright? I had a good run. And I want you to have the cabin. Not just because itโs a nice placeโbut because I know youโll respect it. Youโll know when to open it up to peopleโand when to shut the door. Trust yourself. And donโt let anyone guilt you out of your gut feeling. I love you.โ
I sat there holding that letter for what felt like an hour. I had my answer.
The next morning, I called Mom. She didnโt pick up.
So I drove back and went to see her.
She looked surprised when she opened the door. โOh. Youโre here.โ
โYeah. Can we talk?โ
She stepped aside. I walked in, and Travis was on the couch. Of course.
He gave me that same smirk he always did when he knew Mom would back him up. โHey,โ he said casually, like we were best friends.
โI found Dadโs letter,โ I said, ignoring him.
Mom blinked. โLetter?โ
โIn the cabin. It said he wanted me to have it. That he trusted me to make the right decisions with it.โ
She didnโt say anything. Just glanced at Travis, who suddenly looked real interested in his shoes.
โIโm not giving it away,โ I said. โAnd Iโm especially not giving it to someone who couldnโt even be bothered to show up to Dadโs funeral.โ
Travis stood. โWow. Real mature, man. I had stuff going on.โ
โYeah, you were at a concert.โ
He scoffed. โLike I meant to go. I was trying to distract myself, alright? Grief hits people differently.โ
I shook my head. โYou always have an excuse.โ
He took a step forward. โYou think youโre better than me because Dad liked you more?โ
Mom stepped between us. โThatโs enough, both of you.โ
I turned to her. โIโm not trying to fight. I just want you to understand that this isnโt about being selfish. Itโs about respecting what Dad wanted.โ
She didnโt say much. Just nodded. I could see tears forming in her eyes.
โI need to go,โ I said.
As I was walking out, Travis muttered, โEnjoy your little shack in the woods.โ
I didnโt even bother responding.
But two weeks later, I got a call that surprised me.
From Travis.
I almost let it go to voicemail. But something told me to answer.
โHey,โ he said. His voice sounded different. Quieter. โCan I come up to the cabin?โ
I paused. โWhy?โ
โI justโฆ I want to see it. I never really did.โ
Part of me wanted to say no. But Dadโs words echoed in my mindโabout knowing when to open the door.
So I said yes.
He showed up the next day, alone. Brought a six-pack and some firewood.
We didnโt talk much at first. Just sat by the fire.
โThis place is nice,โ he said finally.
โYeah.โ
โI guess I didnโt really get it before.โ
I nodded.
After a while, he said, โYou were right. About the funeral. I screwed up. And I donโt deserve this place.โ
That surprised me.
โI was angry,โ he continued. โI thought you always got the better deal. But I see nowโyou just showed up. You were there for Dad. I wasnโt.โ
I didnโt know what to say. So I just said, โThanks for saying that.โ
He looked around. โI donโt want the cabin. I just want to come up sometimes. Maybe fish.โ
I thought about it.
โAlright,โ I said. โBut donโt trash the place.โ
He laughed. โDeal.โ
Over the next few months, things slowly shifted.
Travis came up a couple more times. Once, he brought his daughterโyeah, turns out he had a kid I didnโt even know about. Sweet little girl named Ellie. She loved the woods. Thought the cabin was โlike a fairy tale house.โ
We fished. We played cards. It started to feel a little like the old days with Dad.
One night, after Ellie went to sleep, Travis opened up.
โIโm trying to get clean,โ he said. โBeen going to meetings.โ
That hit me hard. I never realized heโd been struggling like that. But it made sense. All the erratic behavior. The ghosting. The lies.
โProud of you,โ I said.
He smiled. โThanks. Iโm not perfect. But Iโm trying.โ
And for once, I believed him.
A few months later, Mom called. Said she wanted to visit the cabin. I was surprised, but I said yes.
When she arrived, she brought an old photo album I hadnโt seen in years. We sat on the porch flipping through pages of us as kids. Dad in his fishing hat. Me with missing front teeth. Travis, sulking in the background of almost every photo.
โI didnโt handle things well,โ she said quietly. โI think I was just scared. Travis was slipping, and I wanted to save him.โ
โI get it,โ I said. โBut Dad left this to me for a reason.โ
โI see that now.โ
We hugged, and something lifted between us.
The cabin didnโt just bring back memories. It started creating new ones.
I started fixing it up. Repaired the roof. Repainted the deck. Put in a little garden out back.
Travis came up on weekends. Sometimes with Ellie. Sometimes alone. He started to pitch in. Even built a small shed for the fishing gear.
One evening, we were sitting by the fire and he said, โYou know, I used to think Dad didnโt love me.โ
I looked at him. โWhy?โ
โI donโt know. He was always harder on me. But maybe he just didnโt know how to reach me.โ
โMaybe,โ I said. โBut I think he cared. He just showed it differently.โ
He nodded. โWell, Iโm glad you didnโt give up on me.โ
I smiled. โMe too.โ
A year later, we held a small ceremony on the porch. Just me, Travis, Mom, and Ellie. We scattered some of Dadโs ashes in the woods behind the cabin, where he used to sit and watch the deer.
Ellie held my hand and said, โGrandpa wouldโve liked this.โ
I choked up. โYeah, kiddo. He wouldโve.โ
The cabin wasnโt just a place anymore. It became a bridge.
Between past and future. Between pain and healing. Between two brothers who had every reason not to get alongโbut found their way anyway.
Sometimes, the hardest thing isnโt holding on. Itโs opening the door, even just a little. Letting someone try again.
I didnโt give Travis the cabin.
But I gave him a chance.
And that made all the difference.
If youโve ever had to choose between protecting something sacred and opening your heart, maybe youโll understand. Not everyone deserves a second chanceโbut some people grow into it, if you let them.
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